As Demi Moore Talks to Divorce Lawyers, David Boreanaz Says His Affair was Good for His Marriage


David Boreanaz and Jamie Bergman

David Boreanaz and Jamie Bergman

While Demi Moore, 48, is rumored to be consulting with a divorce lawyer after her husband Ashton Kutcher’s alleged affair with Sarah Leal, Bones star David Boreanaz says that his affair was actually good for his marriage.  Last year, Boreanaz, 42, admitted to having had an affair.  To add insult to injury, he was sleeping with the object of his affections, Rachel Uchitel, while his wife, Jaime Bergman, was pregnant with their second child. Boreanaz insists, however, that his infidelity served as a bonding experience for him and his wife, telling TV Week: “In a sacred ground like marriage, you find yourself out of it at certain times for reasons unknown that can be destructive.  There could be a demon that kind of comes out and overtakes you.  Do I believe in giving up? No, I don’t. I’m a fighter. I’m a lover.”  Although angry and hurt by Boreanaz’s actions, Bergman was willing to work on their marriage rather than throw in the towel.

Infidelity and emotional affairs can indeed be the result of problems within the cheater’s relationship, or the existence of unmet needs.  That said, I do not condone cheating in any shape or form.  Boreanaz’s example, however, may provide some comfort and hope for Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore.

Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore

Ashton Kutcher and Demi Moore

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